Husband and Slut

Slut Saturday: How Do I Think It Started...

2012-02-25T18:02:00.002-05:00

First, I guess I should apology for everybody who waited for my post this week. I know I said I would post the rest of that valentine's set but I was traveling on business and got too busy to attend to our blog!
Anyhow, slut has been a really good girl during my absence and got properly rewarded when I came back...
Since you all been very patient, I'm going to tell you how I think our "thing" started. I say that because I believe that somehow our memory (slut & mine) diverge a little bit on the question!

As she explained in a previous post, I never had this kind of relationship before, yet I had a pretty strong fetish about "facial". One day, when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend, I came back to my apartment for lunch (she was staying there from the night before...)

After lunch, as we were making out, she proceeded to unbutton my pants, pull my dick out and started sucking. Since we were on the couch, I just moved over her as she laid on her back...
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A Surprise Package & Creative Facial from Master

2012-02-24T14:13:00.000-05:00

Master came home last night from his trip, and I was incredibly glad to see him. Not only did I miss him terribly when he was gone and was so happy to be with him again, but I was also relieved because I hoped it meant my torture was finally over.

After settling in a bit and serving Master a drink, he began to look through the mail that had arrived for him while he was gone. One item in the pile was a rectangular box. I hadn't recognized the company name when I picked it up the other day, so I was curious about it. Master studied it for a moment and handed it to me telling me that it was for me, so I should open it. I was a little surprised, but as I started peeling off the tape, Master explained that it was a Valentine's Day present that arrived very, very late. Now I was excited!

As I tore through the box, I found some delightful items staring back at me! I mentioned that I had recently purchased a gorgeous new pink collar that I absolutely, positively love. Well, the items that were in the box were ankle and wrist restraints, a leash, and a lovely pink leather blindfold that matched my collar exactly. Gorgeous! I was really touched and very, very excited. It's been a long couple days...
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Are the Roots of my Submissiveness Seeded in Childhood Spankings?

2012-02-23T14:51:00.000-05:00

Bear with my train of though for a minute: Yesterday while checking Master's and my blog's analytics, I noticed that someone had stumbled across our site by searching for the very generic term "submissive." I was surprised that such a general term would lead someone to us so soon after starting this blog, so I decided to Google it myself to see what came up. However, I was quickly distracted by an older article that caught my eye by the NY Daily News a couple pages in called Rihanna talks S&M, submissive sex in interview; Can sexual role play play healing role after abuse? So I read it.

Almost immediately, I was feeling uncomfortable as the article seemed to hit pretty close to home for me. The lovely Rihanna admitted that her masochistic side may have roots in the abuse she witnessed and experienced at a young age. While I would not necessarily consider myself to be a victim of childhood abuse, I most certainly had an extremely authoritarian father and was severely spanked on a regular basis as a child. So the analysis within the article from Dr. Laura Berman (OWN's host of "In the Bedroom") really struck a chord with me.

She explained that the abuse and trauma a person receives in childhood is often tied to his or her future sexual proclivities after internalizing these abuse messages and shaping them into sexual desires. Her analysis was backed up with another quote:

"Abuse that occurs in childhood, like spankings for example, can become eroticized," said Dr. Lonnie Barbach, author of "Erotic Edge: Erotica for Couples." "Those memories and those images can hold a lot of sexual charge."

Update on Slut's Punishment

2012-02-22T12:09:00.000-05:00

I explained in my post yesterday that I am currently being punished by my Master for being a very bad girl and breaking his new rule that I am not allowed to touch myself without his permission. He was actually very nice and told me before he left on business again this week that since I had been honest with him about my transgression, he decided that I would be allowed to touch myself only once when he was gone, but I of course still needed to ask for his approval first.

He is gone for two nights only, but that is quite a long time for me to be without any sexual stimulation. I decided that since I could only masturbate once that I was going to try and wait until tonight. Last evening, I did everything I could to keep myself distracted. I watched some trashy TV, kept myself busy with a project, talked on the phone, anything I could do to keep my mind from wandering into the danger zone.

But a little after midnight last night, while lying in bed, my mind was racing and I couldn't stop thinking about my Master's luscious cock rubbing all over my face. He likes to do that when I'm sucking his dick, slowly pull it out and drag it across my forehead and nose, poking my eyes and slapping my cheeks with his glorious cock. It was too much for me. I needed to call my Master.
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Time for Slut to Face the Consequences...

2012-02-21T14:54:00.000-05:00

Well, here we are in the thick of another work week, and my Master is leaving on business again today. He's had to travel so much recently because we're going on vacation soon, and he has to take care of a few things before we leave. But while he'll only be gone a couple nights this time, something tells me it's going to be particularly arduous for me while he's gone this trip...

The reason being is that yesterday I was not a good girl... In fact, I was actually quite naughtly and am now being punished for it. I didn't mean to break Master's new rule for me, but yesterday afternoon, when I was by myself, I mindlessly began touching myself until I had a nice, little orgasm. I honestly didn't even think about the fact that I was breaking his rule until I was in that zen-like after-state when all of the sudden it dawned on me that I had been a very. bad. girl.

When Master arrived home after work yesterday, we were both so busy on the phone and taking care of a few things that we didn't have a chance to sit down together and talk to each other until a little later in the evening. We had a really nice talk where we caught up about the events of our days and things on our minds. But at a certain point, I realized I needed to speak up and tell Master what I had done and apologize for breaking his rule.
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Desensitized to Our Adult Toys Just Hanging Around

2012-02-20T16:17:00.002-05:00

In picking up our home a little this weekend, I noticed that, as always, there seemed to be an abundance of adult items just lying around all over the place. Somehow the nipple clamps on the coffee table, lube tucked away under the couch, the giant dildo suctioned to the bathroom counter, and my hastily-removed thongs always seem to be scattered around no matter how much cleaning we do. I honestly don't even notice them anymore and feel they are simply part of the woodwork.

Before we have anyone over, Master and I usually have to run around trying to view our house with an alternate set of eyes. The benign cherry red butt plug might look right at home next to the TV remote to us, but I am sure there are many guests who would not see things quite the same way! In fact, there have been several times that I have had a girlfriend over for movies or cocktails just to have to desperately snag an offending item before it was seen.

Master and I have two matching chests that look as if they contain pirate's booty that we purchased from a consignment shop in order to hold our sex toys and other naughty accoutrements. They are very nice, but I have to admit that things do not get automatically returned to their closet home when they are finished being used. While we (obviously!) always make sure everything is clean, I think we both like the element of surprise that can come from having one of my collars peek out from beneath a magazine, just calling out to be strapped around my next at a moment's notice. Plus, in a post-sex haze, putting things away in their proper place is not exactly the first thing on my mind!

Is this a common issue in your home? Have any of your guests ever been greeted by a naughty, out-of-place item while stopping by for a chat?

xoxo, Slut

Advice for Dominants from a Slut Who's Never Really Been in the BDSM Scene

2012-02-19T19:22:00.000-05:00

I usually try to steer away from discussing events in my life that occur outside of Master's and my sexual realm, but this scenario was too apt for this blog not to discuss it! A friend and I were talking late last week (not this conversation), and she opened up to me about a situation that had happened to her that involved her first one-night-stand and first experience into the world of bdsm. I wanted to retell her story briefly here and give what I think is probably good advice to any dominants who are dealing with a submissive partner who may not be familiar with the bdsm "scene," so to speak.

So my friend ended up meeting a man last week. They hit it off and ended up having dinner together. At dinner, she told me a couple reg flags went off when he started talking about how he craves control, but she decided that he was cute, fun, had a nice job, and she was pretty attracted to him, so she decided to go for it. He drove her back to his place for the evening.

When they pulled into his parking lot and began to fool around a little (keep in mind that this is the first time my friend has ever decided to have a one-night-stand with a stranger), she said things went from innocently making out to aggressive dick sucking in the car in about sixty seconds which left her head absolutely spinning after the drinks they'd had at dinner.
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Slut Saturday: How Was Your Valentine's Day?

2012-02-18T19:37:00.001-05:00

A week already went by since I took these pictures (during our early Valentine's day celebration). As I was editing them today, and started wondering how everybody had celebrated there own "special day" (you guys should let us now, that may give us some ideas too...).

Ours was awesome! I'm a lucky guy! Slut was a really good girl and received the sweet punishment she likes so much... I particularly like the #4 pictures. You can see the result of a good spanking. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a sadist, but I do admit that I like to spank her beautiful ass... doesn't it not look beautiful???

Anyhow, today I did not gave her any particular orders because last night she came up with a great idea! She wants to give me a "défiler" of all of her lingerie so we can decide what she should keep or not...

Well, in the middle of it, she ended up taking a phone call from a girlfriend that must have lasted over an hour. At that point, I thought that she was being very disobedient, so I really had to do something about it :)
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It's February but Slut is Very Happy!

2012-02-17T16:13:00.002-05:00

I am not feeling that great right now and seem to be under the influence of a minor cold, so this won't be too long today. But I wanted to comment on the fact that it is the middle of February, and although this is usually a really tough time of year for this little slut, I am actually very, very happy right now!

I think there are several factors at play that could be contributing to this great mood. For instance, I have really been enjoying writing for this blog every day. I think it's a very healthy creative outlet, and it's been wonderful to be engaged with past-times I love so much (sex and writing). I think the better weather we've been having lately could be having a strong effect on my outlook, too. Things are not as cold, gray, or bitter as in years past, and I think we might have an early spring. Yea! And there is also the fact that things seem to be flowing more smoothly in my life than at this point last year in terms of work, family, and some personal situations.

But think it's mainly the happy D/s dynamic between Master and me and the fun we've been having defining the boundaries of our everyday play that has given me such an uplifted and positive outlook despite being in the thick of winter's oppression.
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A D/s Dynamic is a Choice Not an Expectation

2012-02-16T15:56:00.002-05:00

Last night I was jotting down some thoughts for this post for today and I decided to take a break to check out one of my favorite newly-discovered blogs, What Does It Mean to be Dominant written by Sir J. I was thoroughly delighted to discover his excellent new post reprinted from his previous blog A Dominant Character called A Dominant Man and Feminism, and had to laugh when I found a very similar subject matter to what I had planned to write myself today.

My ideas for today's post were inspired by a conversation I had had with my Master after he read my Valentine's Day letters to him. I was thrilled to know that my words had touched him, and it felt so good to revel in the feeling of just being so in love with one another. I think we both feel really fortunate to have each other.

But Master also said it was important I know that he was so proud to be my husband, too, and wanted to make sure I didn't feel like I had any less of a valuable role in our marriage. The conversation that ensued was so honest and helpful for both of us, I think, and really aided our understanding of how the other has been feeling about our recent D/s course of action (which, incidentally, has been incredibly great!)
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Financial Decisionmaking for Husband and Slut

2012-02-15T13:16:00.002-05:00

Today is payday for this little slut, and I spent part of the morning taking care of my bills and organizing my savings. In the course of my financial dealings of the day I realized that how my husband and I handle our economic affairs is decidedly not a part of our D/s dealings.

I know that for many subs, financial domination is an important part of their sexual identity. I completely understand the desire to be controlled financially, as it is such a vital and integral part of a person's life. Being financially dominated means that a person no longer has control over his or her living situation, food purchased, clothing worn, employment, life enjoyments, etc., and I recognize that this must feel like supreme surrender to one's partner.

But while I understand the appeal for some and feel my own submissive desires are incredibly strong in some respects, financial domination is not an aspect of play that appeals to me at all. Furthermore, I believe that my husband and I have similar views when it comes to partnership in marriage, and I don't think he would appreciate or like being the only one taking care of our daily financial dealings.
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Husband and Slut Included in e[lust] Edition #33

2012-02-15T12:27:00.000-05:00

e[lust] #33
Welcome to e[lust] the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one place! This edition highlights topics such as STI's, swingers and poly relationships, spanking, role play and so much more. Want to be included in e[lust] #34? Start with the rules, come back in March to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~The Top Three Posts~

I'm the 48%- I keep breathing. Strangely enough, the world didn't end at that precise moment. I felt numb. I stared at those two red lines on the monitor.

Can Swingers be Happily Married? Long Term?- Swinging can be an exhilarating experience. It requires sincerity, honesty, vulnerability, strength, forgiveness, and patience.

Secretary- I was a little worried: my intentions in placing the ad had been purely dishonorable, but her response offered no evidence that she correctly divined my intentions.

~e[lust] Editress~

Why I Write - And Respect - Negative Sex Toy Reviews- I call a spade a spade, and name it out for being crap no matter if it's $39 crap or $139 crap. Crap is crap and you shouldn't have to buy it.

~Featured Post (Picked by Lilly)~

A Little Spanking Can Go A Long Way- All I could do was hold on until it was over. It was more than I could take, but I took it and, of course, I loved it.

Thank you, and enjoy!

A Love Letter to My Dear Master on Valentine's Day

2012-02-14T14:28:00.002-05:00

This was a two part love letter: One to my husband and one to my Master. My letter to my husband became a little too personal for this blog, so I sent the first part to him in a private letter and left the second for him here:

To my dear Master:
Right from the beginning of our relationship, you helped me be a better person, a more honest person, a grown-up. When I met you and felt so directionless, you helped me feel grounded just through the virtue of your love and moral support. You gave me guidance as I picked up my life, provided encouragement, advice, and expected from me exactly what I was capable of achieving. I know I am a better person today because you came into my life, and I am grateful to you for that absolutely every day.

For all the reasons I mentioned that I appreciate you as a husband, I also appreciate you as my Master. I still have the inclination to separate the two yous in my mind (hence the separate letters), but in reality, they are two sides of the coin I love so deeply. You give so much of yourself for me, and it compels me want to deliver the world in return. The loyalty I hold for you in my heart burns more fiercely than I dreamed possible and inspires an overwhelming craving in me to satisfy your wishes and desires.
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Master's Instructions for When He's Gone

2012-02-13T15:37:00.000-05:00

Once again, it's Monday morning and back to the daily grind. Ugh. Master and I had such a lovely weekend together, that I think it makes starting the work week even worse in juxtaposition to the wonderful, intimate time we spent together this past weekend. It's also sad for me because Master is going to be traveling again for the next few days, which is always difficult. I don't sleep very well when he's gone, and I miss him terribly. Plus, we won't be together for Valentine's Day, which is not ideal either (commercial holiday I know it is!)

But I think I am going to focus on the great time we had together this past weekend before the doldrums of work and winter get in the way! Saturday, as Master described in his Slut Saturday post, I had a bit of a challenging time, truth be told. I think I was feeling a little sorry for myself because I knew he would be traveling, so I admit to being a little naughty during the day, pouting when he was busy with some chores around the house and trying to get his attention. When he told me he needed to run an errand because it was getting to be later in the afternoon, I started whining and "complaining a lot" to use my Master's accusation. It was at this point that he became fed up and ended up giving me a solid spanking and face fucking.

He had already fucked me a little earlier, and between that and my disciplinary spanking, I hadn't cum all afternoon. He sent me upstairs to get ready for our evening out with large, raised, red handprints all over my ass cheeks and a very wet and sorry pussy. If you remember, I am not allowed to masturbate anymore when Master is home, so it was a rather torturous shower.
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Our Special Weekend Continues...

2012-02-12T15:07:00.001-05:00

As Master described in his post yesterday, he found out he needed to be away next week for business on Valentine's Day, so we decided to celebrate the holiday this weekend. We may do something nice next weekend, too, because I think he feels a little badly about being away again. Which is very nice, but that's life, and it's all OK!

Last night we went out which ended up being a little of a bust, truth be told, but we more than made up for it when we got home! I wore my new corset for the evening, and it was pretty fun to have such an elaborate and confining ensemble tucked away beneath my sweater, skirt, and coat. And it's quite amazing what a corset will do for your posture!

Master asked me to unbutton my sweater so the top of my corset would be visible underneath while eating dinner. I'm sure this sounds like no big deal to many readers, but this is really not common at all in my neck of the woods and is not something in my normal repertoire. I managed to acquire some dirty looks from some passing women and leering glances from our male waiter. Truthfully, my ah-hem, assets above my legs are my particular claim to fame and not my breasts, so it was strange to draw attention from my exposed lace and chest.
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Slut Saturday: A Very Special Weekend...

2012-02-11T17:26:00.001-05:00

Hi everyone,

This is going to be a short one! It's a very special Slut Saturday. Next week it's valentine's day and since I will be traveling for business, we are having an anticipated lovers day today... Slut has been interrupting me everytime I have been doing something today, so she already took a good spanking, been facefucked and fucked a couple of times.
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Spanking in Public - 33% of American Couples Partake!

2012-02-10T15:22:00.001-05:00

This post isn't directly about Master or me, but it was too good not to share!

Today I read a very interesting article in USA Today that discusses an iVillage study about married women (presumably in the United States) and their sex life. The overall results of the study are very intriguing and may come as quite a surprise to many (for instance 75% of the 1,001 women questioned said that sex was "very or extremely important", with an additional 16% saying that it's "somewhat important." Those are pretty high numbers of married women prioritizing sex!)

However, what I found most fascinating is the number of people who turn to kinky pastimes to spice up their marital relations with their spouse... including the 33% of couples that "pinched/spanked playfully in public"...
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Last Night I Was a Very Good Little Slut

2012-02-09T14:52:00.001-05:00

I have been very much focused since the beginning of the week on what being a good submissive means to me and for my relationship with Master. I mentioned that he had called me out for being sneaky after reading my post where I explained that I had intentionally manipulated the conversation on Slut Saturday away from a topic that had made me nervous. Although Master did find some humor in it, he was also not pleased to hear about my manipulation either, hence his accusation of sneakiness.

The next night I had been much more straightforward with my Master about masturbating by myself without telling him on Slut Saturday. While he had never explicitly told me before that I could not touch myself like that, I do admit that it did feel sneaky by not telling or involving him. When it came up in conversation, Master again found this admission slightly humorous but he also didn't seem to appreciate my actions. He right then and there instituted a new rule that I was not allowed to masturbate without his permission when I was his little slut.

I have been telling Master for a while that I would like it and think it would be good for our marriage if he were to install some rules for this little slut to obey around the house- not necessarily sexual rules, but rules in general. So I was very happy when he so quickly decided that his no masturbation rule was an order I should follow.

It also surprised me a little when Master came home last night and said that I had not been a very good girl lately and therefore deserved a spanking.
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Corset Thoughts & Slut's Valentine's Day Purchase

2012-02-08T15:38:00.000-05:00

Last week I bought a new corset to wear for my Master for Valentine's Day. I ordered it online, so it is most certainly not custom-made for my body, and I worried that it wouldn't fit correctly (especially as this little slut is rather lacking in the boobage department...) When it arrived the other day, I had a chance to try it on, and it does fit just fine. Yet even still, it was slightly more expensive than what I usually buy for my rather extensive lingerie selection, so I am even more nervous than usual that Master will like it.

I don't want to describe the outfit yet because my Master enjoys it when I surprise him with new slutwear. But I think it is very lovely! Maybe when I have it on for him, he will feel inclined to take some photos to share with you as an update to this post...

For all the teddies, stockings, bras, garters, slips, babydolls, and thongs I own, I actually only have one other corset. That one reminds me of something a Wild West prostitute would don in her saloon-brothel. It's dominant color is a silky, kelly green with black, lacy accents. It is also cupless, which I think adds a special slutty air to the look. However, it's boning, I believe, is just plastic, and it doesn't even lace in the back. So it's certainly not the nicest piece in the world.

Corsets are beautiful new territory for me that I somehow feel fits in quite nicely with my submissive personality: bound and restricted, taking pleasure in discomfort. Yes, that sounds good to me!

New Rule for this Little Slut

2012-02-07T15:59:00.003-05:00

In yoga class yesterday while flowing for the first time into downward facing dog, I realized my calf muscles were extremely tight. I giggled a little to myself because that means one thing: I've constricted my muscles too much while masturbating- hah!

I told my Master about it when we were lying in bed last night. I was rubbing his back and talking about how I thought yoga could be good for his body. I described the story about my calves. He turned around, looked at me quizzically, and asked when I had had time to masturbate this weekend. I responded that after he came on my face and sent me to finish the laundry, I had been so aroused that I couldn't help touching myself a little.

He laughed a little at that, and I said that he had never told me I couldn't! (Does this go back to being a sneaky little slut?)
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I Want to Be a Better Submissive for Master

2012-02-06T15:51:00.001-05:00

Before publishing my post yesterday, Master read it over for approval. I know he liked it because he said so. However, he also told me he thought that I was "sneaky." Sneaky!

He was referring to the section where he asked for my reaction to what he had written about his plans for me on Slut Saturday, and I described ignoring the part about going to the grocery store with my facial and just focused on the butt plug part. I didn't lie to him or disobey him by steering the conversation where I wanted, but he's right that I knew what I was doing by not mentioning the store. It was willful omission on my part, and it was pretty sneaky...

When Master and I are involved in a sexual scenario, I am very obedient and listen to him perfectly, I am proud to say, and he expects this of me. However, when we are in our D/s roles but are not in an immediately sexual situation, I do find it harder to be truly submissive to him, and I think he also find it challenging to enforce his dominance over me in these times. Master calling me "sneaky" made me realize that as a submissive, I can, at times, be a bit like a spoiled child: manipulative and used to getting my own way. Awful, I know!
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Master Was Teasing Me!

2012-02-05T19:09:00.001-05:00

In his Slut Saturday post yesterday, Master described how he covered my face and had me go about my business taking care of household chores. I knew he was working on some photos for his post as I was straightening our bedroom and doing laundry, but I do not get to read his posts until he is finished. Therefore, I usually don't know what he writes before it's published unless he asks me to format the photos for him, like he did yesterday.

I found it very difficult to concentrate on the html photo table after reading what he said about going to the grocery store! My Master uses me any way that he wishes, but we do not generally take our play outside of our home, especially where we live. There are very few times that Master has had me be in public with his ejaculate on my face, and usually it's only been when there were not many people around who would notice or care.

I was very nervous about the trip, and I wasn't sure he would actually make me go. Even though he seems to cut himself off when orgasming as he described, I had cum blanketing my forehead, eyes, nose, eyelashes, mouth, dripping down my chin, rolling into my ear canal, and streaking my pulled-back hair- and he wouldn't let me touch any of it.
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Slut Saturday: It's Slut Saturday!!!

2012-02-04T19:11:00.000-05:00

Thank you to all of you who have been following us! Perhaps some have been like me waiting with impatience for Slut Saturday. Well your patience has paid!

It took a little longer that I thought today to edit those pictures. I got so horny that I told her to go put on one of her collar and come back down to suck my cock. When she came back, I grabbed slut by her hair and fuck her mouth frantically to release myself. She's a good little slut, so right now, as I am writing this lines, she is cleaning the house, walking around with a face covered in cum! I told her that whatever she was planning on doing until tonight, she cannot wash her face.

Hehe, she has to go the the groceries store in a few hours. I wonder how the dry cum on her face will look at that point. :)
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Master Is Home and the Weekend's Almost Here!

2012-02-03T16:42:00.000-05:00

My husband came home from his business trip yesterday afternoon. He actually beat me back to our place and was there already when I arrived from work a little before six. Yesterday sucked a bit for me, so I was really excited to finish my day and get home to my Master. I missed him so much after being apart for several days, so it was a really special treat that he made it back so quickly.

I when I pulled up, I noticed his car was there and eagerly rushed to the door to see him. I think that we both had similar feelings of anticipation in seeing each other after these days apart because when our eyes met we shared this beautiful moment of soulful, love-filled connection. I felt all at once content, safe, warm, treasured, and passionately in love with the man I call Master. I love my husband so deeply.

We certainly have our moments of discord and miscommunication like any couple, but I was so grateful to be with him in that pure moment. We melted into each other, kissing and clasping, so glad to be together. My heart felt so full.
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Trust, Monogamy, and Master's Business Travels

2012-02-03T12:19:00.000-05:00

Master finally returned to me yesterday after being out of town since last Monday. It is difficult for me to be away from the husband and Master I love so dearly, even though it has been common for him to travel throughout our relationship, and I'm quite used to it by now. Yet I have to admit I pleasantly spend this time by myself eating what I please, catching up with friends, watching trashy television, and doing anything else my slutty little heart desires within the constrains of our relationship. But I would honestly trade it for time spent with my husband any day of the week.

A couple nights ago I had a pretty terrible night's sleep; I was exhausted but unable to settle my mind or shut my eyes. I flipped from side to side, stomach to back but just couldn't get comfortable. Master's and my bedroom felt too drafty, but later I had to kick the comforter to the side as I suddenly woke up sweating. Every little noise in the house seemed to echo directly into my eardrum, as I lay there feeling more and more sorry for myself for the lack of rest.

I think my night got off to a bad start because I had tried to call my Master a little before midnight to say goodnight to him but received only a steady ringing followed by his sexy voice on his cell's answering message. I tried him again in case he hadn't been able to reach his phone, and left a message when his voicemail picked up for the second time. I tried not to sound worried in my message, because it's extremely uncommon for him to miss my call.
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I Am Badly Losing the Facial Forum January Contest

2012-02-02T12:27:00.002-05:00

Yesterday, the voting for January's cum-covered wife and girlfriend competition on Facial Forum started, and I am losing horribly. I am somewhat surprised that it is having this much of an effect on me, but I am just gutted.

Master entered some of our blog photos for the competition, mainly to try to raise awareness for Husband and Slut. As Master reminded me last night, most of the photos he submitted to the competition don't, actually, show any facials which might have something to do with it (as that is kind of the point of Facial Forum). But I don't care. It is a really shitty feeling to be beaten so badly when being judged on your sexiness. I didn't think I would win, but I also didn't think I would lose so drastically, though. I'm embarrassed to have let my Master down, and I'm feeling really bad about myself right now. Ugh.
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Reflecting on Vacation Playtime: Part III: Tent Slut Slapped

2012-02-01T09:47:00.000-05:00

For the past several nights my Master has been away again on business. So I have been reflecting on some of our past vacations stories like my Honeymoon Facial to keep me company while I think about exactly where I wish to go on our upcoming trip in a month or so's time (as Master asked of me before he left.)

In Beach Plugged, I mentioned that the campground where we happened to stay last summer was full to capacity, a hub for extended families in mini-RV communities, summer-long residents, and church-going folks there to attend the campground's Sunday services, which wasn't our usual vacation scene... Because it rained on and off throughout that last day of our trip, and we weren't feeling particularly social toward our temporary neighbors, we decided to try to find something to do to occupy ourselves inside our tent.

It wasn't long before we discovered a way to keep ourselves busy, losing articles of clothing one by one as we fooled around inside our sleeping bag at about three in the afternoon.
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Reflecting on Vacation Playtime: Part II: Honeymoon Facial

2012-01-31T11:51:00.001-05:00

In yesterday's Beach Plugged, I reminisced about last summer's camping trip with Master and our exposed beach fun. After reading my version of our story, Master reminded me that he had taken some photos of that tryst on the beach. If you ask him nicely, he might be inclined to share some shots with you...

Today I wanted to tell you a story from our honeymoon as I reflect on the delicious and devious creativity of my Master when we're traveling. After our romantic and intimate wedding ceremony, family celebrations, and incredible first night spent as a married couple, we took off for our honeymoon destination in a major European city where we spent time doing what newly married people do in foreign cities: fucking like rabbits with a little tourism peppered in between sessions.

On our last evening when walking hand-in-hand back to our hotel after a wonderful meal and checking out some of the area nightlife, we found ourselves along a poorly lit street. Although it wasn't crowded, there were people who passed by here and there as my husband pulled me in close and kissed me lustfully.

The residences on the street reminded me of the brownstones on the American east coast except that all the entrances to the apartments were located below street level and one would have to walk down a few steps to reach the door. As we stood there, tongues swirling in a foreign city, my Master suddenly yanked me down steps to one of the residences and pushed me down in front of him.
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Reflecting on Vacation Playtime: Part I: Beach Plugged

2012-01-30T18:09:00.001-05:00

Master and I began planning a winter vacation last evening, and I am so excited for it already! We will be leaving in about a month, and it is very nice to look forward to something fun, especially during the doldrums of winter.

One of the major reasons I'm so excited is because when we are traveling, Master seems to find inspiration to introduce new forms of play into our sexual dynamic. The element of surprise that he springs on me tests my submission and exhilarates me like nothing else. He seems to enjoy adding more public elements into his repertoire as well, which also thrills me as somewhat of an exhibitionist (hence the photos on this site...) I think when we're in a place away from home and out of our everyday element he feels more comfortable trying riskier acts knowing the odds of us being caught by someone who could recognize us are slimmer.

In the meantime, I have some sizzling memories of previous trips to keep me cozy as February rolls into view... I wanted to share several of our vacation stories with you, so I hope you enjoy this first one about this past summer when Master and I went camping together. We both love being outdoors, and there is nothing like immersion in nature to make you unwind, relax, and feel truly free...
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Why "Slut" Sounds Oh, So Good to Me!

2012-01-29T18:10:00.003-05:00

The other day I mentioned that the Captain at Captain Kidnap was kind enough to do a blog post about Husband and Slut (thanks again, Captain!) His site depicts three of his favorite things: "Women tied up, Women tying up. Women in hosiery." and usually includes images from film or print. So although his site certainly alludes to bondage, it is not an adult blog per se, and many of his readers might not regularly or ever frequent sex or bdsm blogs.

So it was interesting to me that one of his commenters responded to the post and said:

NEVER understood the use of the term “slut” to label a woman who happens to enjoy sex as-much-as a man!

I have to admit that it made me chuckle a little. I suppose at this point, my Master calls me his little slut or its equivalent in his original language so much that I very much take it as a term of endearment. It makes me feel warm; very secure in his love; and so, so turned on.

I do understand why someone not walking our path would be perplexed by "slut." It this is one of those words that has multiple definitions depending on who uses it and where. I've heard it used to describe someone as promiscuous because she likes sex or as a girl who sleeps around because she has low self esteem. It can be interchanged with "bitch" and used in a derogatory manner. It can be one of the most damaging and hurtful things to say to a woman. So I have heard some women use it in a positive way, too, when greeting their friends, in an effort to take back the word and mitigate its harmful effects. I admit "slut" can mean different things to different people.
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Slut Saturday: Ahhh! Slut Saturday...

2012-01-28T17:40:00.000-05:00

As my little Slut already explained, many months ago we started "Slut Saturday". This day is the day of the week when Slut is my complete slave for the day! I tell her how to dress, what to do (or not do), and take advantage of her body whenever I want and however I want...

Today, I haven't been too hard on her yet, but this is just about to change! As soon as this post is done, I'm going to fuck her throat and rub my dick on her face. Later on, since we are going out for some dinner and a movie, I'm going to forbid her to wear any underwear and tell her to make sure she wears something that will give me an easy access to her tits and curvy ass...
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No Turning Back Now...

2012-01-27T13:36:00.001-05:00

Well! I have to admit that Master and I have been somewhat surprised and a little overwhelmed by the amount of traffic to our blog so quickly. I am not sure that either of us expected our site to take off the way it has, but we thank everyone who has been reading our posts and viewing our photographs!

It has been wildly surreal for me knowing that hundreds of people from all over the world have now seen what used to be my Master's private photos of little ol' me. In fact, it's hard for me to really comprehend what it means at this point. It is exciting, thrilling, titillating, and naughty? Definitely! Does it make me nervous knowing that my Master's and my secret could be exposed? Admittedly it does. However, what's done is done. I know there's no turning back now now, and I wouldn't even if I could. I like being exposed to you. I like it even more that my Master likes it, too...

Over the past few days, I keep finding myself wondering what impact it would have on my everyday, personal, non-sexual life should this blog and our photos somehow make their way into friends' or family members' hands.
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Hair Messed, Makeup Smeared, Lip Mangled: Update

2012-01-26T14:47:00.000-05:00

I think that Master liked my blog post yesterday because when I returned home last evening, he had done a surprise photo post as a response to what I had written regarding my day-long obsession with deep throating his glorious cock. He asked me to format the html display of the photos that he had produced for the post, and since I had been home later than usual after my work out, he left me to my editing while he made a (delicious!) dinner for us.

I really like the new photo series that he published yesterday, but being forced to stare at them while I was working was almost torture after not cumming for nearly a week and thinking about Master's cock all day yesterday. Maybe this was his plan? Regardless, it had the effect of making me even hornier than I had been earlier in the day.

So, after dinner when Master said to me, "well, you read my post, you know what's going to happen to you now," my heart skipped a beat, and I enthusiastically dove straight towards his dick, freed the beast, and went to town sucking and licking to prepare for another night of deep throat education.
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Deep Throat and Face Fucking...

2012-01-25T19:56:00.000-05:00

I always been really respectful of my partners and never intended to degrade them in any matters. However, there is nothing more exiting to me than looking at my little slut as I'm banging her face. Seeing her gag and struggling to swallow my dick. A few minutes into it and drool and tears are covering her face. At that point, she looks so slutty I just want to rub my cock all over her face just to make her look even more messed up.

Like she says, there are positions in which it seems easier for her to do this, but she needs to work on it! I think that tonight,
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Working Hard to Deep Throat Master Better

2012-01-25T15:49:00.001-05:00

Since the middle of last week, Master has only had me suck his cock, in lieu of actually penetrating my pussy or my ass. After each of these good face fuckings, I have been left horny, wet, and somewhat disappointed, my face flushed, panting, as he relaxes and zips up his pants. This has made me totally insane; images of his luscious cock randomly dance into my mind, spanking my cheeks, ravaging my throat, and shooting cum all over my face. I've found it really difficult to concentrate on work this week.

I don't think he has necessarily been trying to have this effect on me or even planned it out to happen like this, but I am am pretty surprised it has been this efficacious. After being deprived of the good old-fashioned vaginal fucking I love so much, I would have thought that would be the sole focus of my attention and desire... but it's not. All I want right now is his dick rammed past my gag reflex, chocking me.

So last night I decided to take it upon myself to practice my deep throat skills on my Master when he presented his cock to me after dinner.
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Our Guidelines for Taking D/s Play into the Everyday

2012-01-24T15:23:00.000-05:00

"Honey, will you please bring me a tissue when you come back in here?" my husband asked me last night as I was in the kitchen doing something. When I returned to the living room, I had completely forgotten about his request, and I immediately felt very awkward and uncomfortable saying that I was so sorry for forgetting. My husband asked me again, "do you mind grabbing some for me, please?" and added "I'm sorry," for asking me to go back to the other room. When he said, "I'm sorry," it actually made me feel more uncomfortable than when I forgot in the first place, which in turn made him feel strange...

As you may know from reading some past posts, my husband-Master and I are attempting to document our D/s relationship as we take our adult play from strictly in the bedroom to being incorporated more and more into our daily life. I wanted to share our strategy for handling this and see if there are any helpful suggestions for how other D/s couples have made this work for them.
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Thankful for our Readers & Viewers (and Especially for my Master)!

2012-01-23T21:16:00.001-05:00

Thank you to everyone who has viewed my Master's and my blog over the past few days! It has been exhilarating to put ourselves out there like this, I truly have to say. I have thoroughly enjoyed sharing my thoughts with you, and I know Master finds it exciting to share with you his photos of me, his little slut.

On a separate note, I have to take a minute to compliment my Master on his incredible photography skills! I have been really blown away by what he has created, and I feel very proud of these lovely photographs, Master. You are truly talented and may have found your forte. Thank you, and I love you so much! I am a lucky slut, indeed, to have found my Master in this world.

With that, I believe Master is working on more photos to share with you soon, so please check back regularly for his posts as well as every Slut Saturday!

Now I'm off to thank my Master properly...

xoxo, Slut

Six Simple Steps to Help Your Husband View You More Sexually

2012-01-23T11:16:00.000-05:00

Although the title of this post references helping yourhusband view you more sexually, I hope the advice can also be relevant for those in any committed partnership regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

This post is about helping your partner to view you more like his Whore and less like his Madonna.

In a recent conversation with a good friend, I found myself giving some advice that I thought might be pertinent to this blog as well. My friend explained that since solidifying their long-term partnership, her partner began treating her somewhat differently, more gently and in some respects, more formally. It right away made me think of the classic "Madonna-Whore" complex many men face when acknowledging their sexual desires and weighing the compatibility of those views with their image he may have of his partner.

My suspicion seemed to gain weight when she started to detail the differences in his treatment of her from when they first started dating and after they decided to make a life-long commitment to one another. For instance, she described how at first he would take her to lingerie shops and encourage her to buy all sorts of sexy items. Yet when she recently bought a very tasteful silk slip with simple lace trim to wear one evening, he reacted as if he were very uncomfortable with her and she left to change into something more conservative, feeling very rejected.
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Slut Saturday: Need to Catch Up...

2012-01-22T16:16:00.004-05:00

Ok! here the first post! My little slut did a very good job so far, so it is time for me to catch up...

I hope that the people who see this blog will enjoy the subjects and the pics of my beautiful little submissive wife. I have to give her the credit. she had the idea and put it together very well. For my part, you will see probably more pictures than writing... "read more" if you want to get the idea...

Please, don't hesitate to comment and let us know what you think...
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Brand New Blog Header & Photos for Husband and Slut's First "Slut Saturday"...

2012-01-22T01:02:00.002-05:00

I am so excited!

Master finished editing our first photos to share with you... Thank you, Master!

I have added a couple teaser photos to the Our Photos section of our website until he has a chance to post the rest. I also added our new blog header photo to hopefully make this site a little striking.

It's very exhilarating to be so publicly displayed to the world, but I am also apprehensive about our readers' reactions... I do hope it pleases you!

So please stay tuned for more to come in Master's first post...

Happy Slut Saturday!

xoxo, Slut

The Root of Submissiveness Lies in People Pleasing

2012-01-20T15:30:00.001-05:00

I have been thinking a lot about my submissive tendencies lately and wanted to get to their root. While I may have had bondage fantasies before I even knew what bondage was, being a submissive is not a label that I acquiesced for myself until further down the road when I was a full-gown woman. Yet, I do believe that the root of my submissiveness was always a facet of my personality from the time I was a child. I am essentially a people-pleaser at heart and always have been.

When defining what a submissive is, I believe that the central core is simply that one derives personal pleasure from meeting and satisfying the demands of others. Now, if I take the sexual allusion out of that statement, I could actually apply it to just about anyone who is a member of the oh-so-disdained "people-pleasing" crowd, myself included.
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A Gift for my Master Came in the Mail Today!

2012-01-19T23:26:00.004-05:00

It is pretty late, but I just got around to opening a package that came in the mail today. I am so excited!

My Master usually buys our toys and other sexual accoutrement himself with which to surprise me, although I generally buy my own lingerie to change into when he desires it. I think he likes to be surprised by what I choose, and lately I've been branching out a little and buying items that are really more slutty than sexy. Lately, I've noticed he seems to be particularly fond of fishnet and larger mesh lingerie.

It's been a somewhat challenging for me to to wear things that would have made my former self blush. Every time my Master tells me to change into something sexy for him when we are home by ourselves, it usually thrills me because it's a signal that he is about to use me. I am so excited to slide, button, snap, or tie myself into something just for him. However, this same powerful desire to please him fills me with anxiety as well because I am so nervous he'll be disappointed.
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The Wonderful and Trying World of Internet Porn and Monogamous Relationships

2012-01-19T13:05:00.007-05:00

My Master is away today on business for the fist time in several months. He usually travels more frequently, so I was very lucky to have him home with me for all of the end of last year. But he needs to be away for several days, and so this will be the second evening that I have all to myself in quite some time. I have not been able to talk with him over the phone since early this morning, so I don't really know what his plans are tonight where he is traveling. However, before he left, we took some special photos in order to try and make a photographic header for our blog together. I am hoping that he has some time and desire to work on those tonight, but it really isn't my place to ask him to do so.

I do know that when he is traveling he sometimes chooses to look at the pictures we have created together. Which is very flattering, indeed, as we are married, monogamous, and he sees me anytime he pleases. (Coincidentally, I was watching the movie I Love You, Man recently, and Jason Segal's character says to Paul Rudd's character, "Wait, you jacked off to a picture of your own girlfriend? You... That... Wow. That is sick." It made me laugh, but at the same time, it same me a little sad because I really like knowing my Master looks at our photos...)

However, I also know that other times, maybe the majority of his private moments, he delves into the the wonderful world of internet porn.
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Off We Go!!!

2012-01-19T13:05:00.005-05:00

Well, here is my official first post!

I am alone at the moment and writing, my heart throbbing with anticipation and nervousness for this site, my posts, and reader reactions. I am also excited and nervous for exactly how maintaining this blog may or may not affect the relationship between my Master and me. As I mentioned in our "About" section, Master and I have been together for about six years and have been married for several of those years. Somewhere along the way, he has become my Master and I have become his little slut.

Our relationship is probably categorized as a BDSM alternative relationship at this point, but it does seem strange to put a label on something that seems to flow so naturally from both of us. Like any good submissive, nothing is more tantalizing than the concept of satisfying the needs of my Master, and I believe he finds pleasure in me meeting those needs.
However, I am reluctant to define our sex life as it is constantly morphing due to exposure to what's out there and what we experience for ourselves.
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